boys will be boys

The phrase 'boys will be boys' is often used to excuse or downplay behaviors typically associated with masculinity, but it can perpetuate harmful stereotypes.

Definition

B2General

(informal, idiomatic)Used to excuse or downplay mischievous, rough, or reckless behavior in boys or men by suggesting it is natural or inevitable.

Example

  • When the boys started wrestling in the living room, their father just shrugged and said, 'boys will be boys.'

C1Sociocultural

(informal, critical)Used to justify or tolerate aggressive or inappropriate behavior in boys or men, often perpetuating negative gender stereotypes.

Example

  • Critics argue that saying 'boys will be boys' can excuse harmful actions and reinforce outdated gender norms.

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