soften up
The phrase "soften up" is commonly used in various contexts to describe making something or someone more amenable, less resistant, or less severe.
Definition
B1General
To make something less hard or firm.
Example
- She softened up the butter by leaving it out of the fridge.
B2Persuasion
(informal)To make someone more receptive to an idea or request by being nice to them.
Example
- He tried to soften up his boss with compliments before asking for a raise.
C1Military
(technical)To weaken the resistance or morale of an opponent before an attack.
Example
- The troops were ordered to soften up the enemy positions with artillery fire.
B2Emotional
To become more gentle or sympathetic.
Example
- Her expression softened up when she saw the puppy.
Similar
Terms that have similar or relatively close meanings to "soften up":
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