wear the trousers

The phrase "wear the trousers" is a British idiom that refers to the dominant partner in a relationship, typically implying control and decision-making authority.

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Definition

C1Relationships

(informal, British)To be the partner who holds the authority or control, often making key decisions.

Example

  • In their marriage, it's clear who wears the trousers.

Similar

Terms that have similar or relatively close meanings to "wear the trousers":

big-boy pantsbig-girl pantsshow who's boss